I’d a lunch day with a man I’d exchanged certain emails and several a g-chat with.  We even Skyped-which i will be composing a post on…I recommend Skype or iChat with a night out together before you spend time doing your hair, especially if you’re balancing lot’s of times.  For reals.

Anyways, all had been great on the «No Catfish Here forward». I appeared to be me, he appeared to be him, we laughed and chose we can easily deal with a real day.

I became on time, he had been belated (whyyyyyyyyy…stop getting LATE you guys)…and he texted me personally, «only walking upwards!»

It actually was flowing water, did I point out that? And freezing, at the least for Southern California standards. And he was actually using flip-flops. SHOES. The.Horror.
I detest to appear extremely judgemental (too late!) but as on line daters, isn’t really that what we do? JUDGE!  Assess initial email, basic call, the fb judge, seeking what is wrong…instead of what exactly is correct? Or perhaps is that simply me…haha.

Now, I am not probably beat across plant right here. I think a guy putting on flip-flops in the torrential rain is actually obnoxious. I’d consider the exact same about a girl…but in which I stay, flip-flops and shoes never ever get store for good and that I know i have been guilty of a grocery shop run-in sandals during a storm.  A good many guys I am drawn to are surfers, or outdoorsy and flip flops and jeans tend to be particular their own uniform.  Carry out I wish he previously the current presence of mind to put on actual boots? Exactly why yes, yes i really do.  Performed he require a pedicure?  Certainly, yes the guy did-all that outdoorsy-ness i love plenty will not leave the feet appearing also beautiful, apparently.

But I digress.

We chuckled much in which he is devastatingly good looking.  He has impressive table manners and questioned the proper concerns.  Things seemed to be heading well because after we ate, he asked basically wanted to visit another location to get some good pumpkin cheesecake. We forgot about their sneakers and stopped judging…and just had a very good time.

Whether or not he could be someone I would like to continue dating has yet to be determined, however if things continue well, possibly we’ll have to get him a set of Chuck Taylor’s for xmas and burn the sandals. With really love, however. And an alibi. ????

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